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How to Handle Guilt and 
Other Caregiving Emotions


Taking care of a loved one with an illness or disability can stir up some complicated emotions. You may have great days when you feel a deep sense of fulfillment and connection. And hard days, filled with guilt, grief, or anger. You might even have conflicting feelings, like love and resentment, at the same time. It can be challenging, and if you don’t pay attention, it’ll wear you down.
No two caregiving experiences are the same. What triggers one person may not be an issue for another. You have your own relationship to your loved one, rich and complex with your shared history. So it’s important to know there’s no formula for what you’ll feel or when. And there are no feelings you “should” or “shouldn’t” have. Emotions just arise whether you want them to or not.

To give the best care you can, it helps to know the kinds of feelings that might come up, how to recognize them, and what you can do to manage them.

What You Might Feel
Many people have these challenging feelings, at least sometimes. And these emotions can show up in different ways, day to day.

Anger and resentment.
From being unappreciated to feeling trapped, caregiving stress can set off your anger. You might lose your temper or blurt out something that you normally wouldn’t.
What you can do: If it happens, forgive yourself. Step away if you need to, or take a few breaths to center yourself.

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Summers Coming

With spring in full force, the trees and flowers are budding and the bugs are out. So protect yourself from the sun, bugs, and working your body too hard. Wear sunscreen even on cloudy days and wear protective clothing. Use Insect repellent for mosquitoes and especially ticks.

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Vitamin N

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